Sorry I have been on hiatus, the holiday’s have been a little crazy….anyway, onto the question!
Question:
Why do straight married women think it’s not cheating if they sleep with women? And worst….why do their husband’s think it’s all ok?
Answer:
First and foremost, all joking aside, cheating is cheating.
This issue gets my blood boiling! It also reminds me of an incident with a friend of mine. She was a woman over the age of 40 yet had only slept with one person, her husband of 15+ years. We were at a dance club when my sweet innocent friend stood there on the dance floor with the most perplexed look on her face. You see, she was confused as to why women were dancing with other women, well I guess you couldn’t call it dancing but more like grinding. Legs tangled up in each other, body parts rubbing against other no-no body parts. Here are a bunch of women getting dirty with each other, but what she failed to notice was that they were doing it to attract the men. If you took a look around the circle you would see that most of the men were staring with lust, where if the men were cartoons, we would have to watch our step to avoid tripping over their tongues as they rolled across the floor.
Or we can bring up Katie Perry’s “I Kissed a Girl” which pushed the girl on girl action popularity beyond that of the “college experiment”. Women are beautiful…the thought of two of them, even better. Men are visual creatures, so taking one of their favorite things; times it by two and putting them together, they are through the roof! Some women think they are exploring themselves by testing the waters with other women or they know that the thought of themselves getting excited about a member of the same sex will turn on their husband (otherwise there is a whole category of porn no one is watching).
However, I will warn you, though the thought of your wife getting it on with another woman might turn up the heat in your current relationship, you aren’t bothering to look at the big picture. This is something that will change, alter or ruin your relationship. Whether the person has a penis or a vagina, whether it is emotional or physical, cheating is still cheating. PERIOD.